Seems that modern world teaches us to be toxic, especially if you’a a man.
Toxic in a signal-bearing way at least, like a poisonous frog or butterfly – not necessarily a predator, but wearing battle colours.
but to the point. This signalling protects us from malevolence sometimes.
We show aggressive resilience, aggressive opinions - to
Groups of benevolent people end up better than groups of egoists.
see other people as resources too venom in thinking
Still, I find it very hard to stop judging other people. If they are confronted with